“WHAT DO YOU DO WITH A BROKEN VESSEL?”
“We” Ugochi corrected her friend. She folded her
legs up and rested her jaw on her knees. If only she had been careful or had
minded her business, fetched her water and left immediately, but no; Nneka
convinced her to join those girls in their water fight, now they were both
leaving without water, not even with the calabash they came with. Nneka’s rants
were itching her ears. They should be thinking of what tell their parents,
instead of ranting. Anger wouldn’t solve anything now.
“Mba. Don’t worry about me. I am going to tell Papa.
See ehn, I’m not blaming Chinaza and her friends, that is not what I am doing.
What I said is, let allof us look for a way, you know, just a way, I don’t
know. They didn’t even wait to sympathize with us, that’s the least could’ve
done, instead, they ran away. They think they are smart. They’ll see what Nneka
Obichi can do”
“Nneka, you know quite alright that this would just
make everything complex, ehn!” Ugochi’s eyes didn’t leave the ground
“That is exactly what I want, Ugochi, exactly. These
girls would see my red eyes. Biko, let’s start going home”
Ugochi got up and began picking the broken pieces of
her calabash.
“Hian! Ugochi, do you want-o use the broken pieces
to cook?” Nneka started laughing at Ugochi
“Zit your pick? Biko,
leave me to do what I want to do. My father is not a chief”.
Ugochi got home and received all rounds of shouting.
Mama had repeated severally that reason she always sent her to stream instead
of her siblings was because she thought she was more responsible.
“Ugochi; you are better than this na, ehn, E kari
ifi neme. If to say your mates no dey behave well, you suppose know say your
home training dey separate. How can you just see people, you don’t even know
anything them and you just join them to play? Do you know if they are spirits?
Ehn, Ugochi? I am very disappointed. Abi it is that your friend that is
influencing you?”
Ugochi didn’t know what
to say. In Mama’s eyes she had failed. Her siblings that saw her as the most
responsible would look at her as an unserious person.
“Ah ahn. Nneka, where to?” Ugochi saw Nneka outside
her house even before she got in.
“To the stream” Nneka answered grouchily. “What did
your father say?”
“Hmmm, it’s a long story o. To cut it short sha,
after they finished shouting at me, I begged Papa, I cried ehn!” She shook her
head. “You know that onku na?”
“Which onku”
“That onku that stays beside Ifuoma’s house. I told
Papa that he can fix the calabash. Nneka, if you see the way I begged Papa ehn!
He later agreed o. So I’ll soon have my calabash back. It would even look finer
sef.” Ugochi screeched started jumping around her friend. “What did your father
DO?”
“See ehn, Ugo forget dah thing. I don’t have
strength to start telling you the story. Mttcheww, these village pipu don’t
know what it means to respect a chief” She rolled her eyes.
“Ok o, if you say so.
But what are you going to do at the stream, Nneka?”
What do you do with a broken vessel?
Truth is; everyone does something with a broken
vessel. I have two categories which we all fall in.
The first set of people is Ugochi. They accept
they’re broken, pick the pieces of themselves, go through the pain of
criticism, know that they can be rejuvenated and go for it.
The second set of people is Nneka. Oh! I didn’t tell
you what Nneka went to the stream to do? Well, it became a daily routine. She
would to stream, hide and time when Chinaza and her friends would come. When
they come, she’d start throwing stones. She did that till the number of broken
calabashes satisfied her. Nneka wasn’t concerned about rejuvenation. All she
wanted was justice. Those girls couldn’t be freely fetching water when her
calabash was broken, Mba!
Ugochi was ready to accept the criticisms from her
parents and siblings. If she hadn’t done that, how would she have begged her
father? Criticism is an important stage during rejuvenation. The critics would
surely come, but Ugochi had a focus; that onku would fix her calabash if she
begged her father. When we open our hearts to God for healing, He’ll surely fix
us and we’ll bounce back stronger.
As for Nneka, she couldn’t face criticism. Of
course, her father was a chief! But she couldn’t just sit and face the fact
that her calabash was broken; that was enough pain. Her breaking other girls’ calabash
was a coverage to the fact that her calabash was STILL broken. And trust me;
she didn’t want to face that FACT. But at the end of the day, after the
satisfaction from breaking those calabashes, she would get home and STILL meet
her broken calabash, forever destined with emptiness, cos it can never carry
anything without a rejuvation.
Again, what do you do with a broken vessel?
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